This community isn't about being helpful. It's about hanging out and being friendly and Outwitters and stuff like that. I'm sure nobody here thinks you are annoying, so please don't sell yourself short.
As for communities, I don't really frequent any communities except for this one, especially since I recently had a dramatic falling out with the other community I frequented. Maybe a good question would be what are you interested in besides games? If you are interested in classic style point and click adventure games I would recommend adventuregamestudio.co.uk